Do You Want This? (I Might Make Something For You)
Note 1: I am **thinking** about holding a free training on communication for commitment. If you are interested, please request to join this Facebook Group. More details in this post…
Note 2: In case you’re wondering, this is a followup to this post that I made last week, which, got a tremendous number of replies… more than I think I’ve ever gotten on a blog post.
If you can’t watch this video right now, you can read the blog post below.
My First Dive Into The World Of Communication
After we broke up, I felt completely confused and lost.
It seemed as if the floor had fallen out from under my feet and I had fallen through a trap door into a strange world.
It was clear that there was something deeper going on in our communication — after all, she was so upset and angry with me — but I just couldn’t figure out what was happening or what I needed to do about it.
It was like I had fallen into some strange new world where nothing made sense anymore.
So, It Was Out Of Desperation I Tried Some Terrible Advice
It all seemed so strange and confusing to me.
But whatever I was doing wasn’t working, so I decided to try some of the tricks and mind games that I was reading about online.
…Let’s just say that they didn’t work out so well…
I Crashed And Burned In Abject Failure And Humiliation
She was upset with me.
She was angry.
And she didn’t want anything to do with me.
(So much for mind games, reverse psychology, and being an “alpha male”…)
I didn’t know what to do.
So, I Did The Scariest Thing Of All
I let go of outcome and cut contact.
It was hard and difficult, but I stuck with it.
I didn’t get “all the way through” it though. About 3 weeks or so into it, I was checking my email between classes at school, when I saw that I got an email from my ex.
She said she was tired of this “game” we were playing and that she missed me and wanted to talk.
Later that night, we talked on the phone in one of the most honest and straightforward ways that we had in a long time.
I was detached from outcome and just listened to her.
And she left the conversation with a completely different understanding of me.
There was a lot that happened from there over the next several weeks and months… but that conversation was a major turning point between us.
And it was communication that made it possible.
So, Here’s What I’m Coming To… Here’s What Is Being Demanded Of Me… And Here Is What I Feel Compelled To Do…
After reading through over 400 survey replies that you sent in to me, and going through who-knows-how-many comments on the blog posts I published last week, it has become clear to me that there are people out there who want to learn more about communication.
I’m **thinking** about putting together a course on advanced communication strategies for relationships.
But it’s going to be a HUGE task, for sure.
I’m Thinking About Making a Free Training For You, If You Are Interested In Improving Your Communication
But I think it makes sense to test the waters before I go crazy building out a full communication course by teaching a free training on communication for you.
But there’s a catch…
I’m going to need your help in this process so that I can focus on the topics and challenges that are most relevant to you.
So, Here’s What I’d Like You To Do
I’ve created a Facebook group for people who are interested in communication for commitment and relationships.
If you are interested, please request to join the Facebook group.
**IF** enough people request to join the group (I’m thinking 250 or more), I will approve all of you to join the group and do the free training.
If, on the other hand, I have completely misread the level of interest in this, then no worries, we can end all of this right here.
On Your Side,